i hear what youre saying steve. trust me, my radar has been up on that one. Ive done my fair share of snooping (not proud of it). Being a police officer, it just comes naturally (not a good thing).
She has always worked out excessively to deal with stress. She only works with a bunch of women and doesnt go out on the weekends (except to her family's house). She talks to me about her friends, shows pics, etc. We still have joint cell phone bills so I can see there hasn't been any weird phone numbers. Unless it's strictly a text message EA or something like that, I just cant see any other indicators. plus, after reading these boards, it seems calling her out or flatly asking if she is having an affair wont be beneficial for anyone. She can just lie or get pissed at me for asking (therefore, reinforcing her negative feelings toward me), right?
my gut feeling is still that she is just incredibly unhappy. she wants to feel good about herself and not be in our situation. that is why her distancing herself from our son is bothering me. If she has a problem with me, fine. Its just not like her to want to be away from our son.
