my wife and i smoked weed our entire 20 year relationship and I have recently stopped 2 years ago because i just got sick of be preoccuped all the time with and our kids were beggining to wonder what we were doing of already knew. So I quit but my W CANT I THINK SHE wants to but cant and it is making us grow apart when I aske her to stop/get help or something she gets mad and just says dont worry about her. But it has to stop sooner or later. Any advice on what I can do to help her. This is my secondary problem, pease read my other post under newcommers _HELP SAVE MY MARRIAGE- I need lots of feedback and encouragment thank you