Cyrena Wow, thank you! Someone else told me basically the same thing in different context...recommended I find a good family therapist, make an appointment for just me, and then invite W along for the future.
We made 3 months before the relapse. And now the same talk...talking about leaving the house, all the damage she has done again...doesn't know how we could fix it...and the other big kicker is the constant thought that maybe he is the one she should be with.
Thank you so much for sharing your experience
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11