LOL OT! (yeah, I was kinda wondering the same thing--KML you are a catch!)
My mother is in her 70s, and I swear the woman still can get a guy with very little problems. She's not particularly beautiful or accomplished, but she has what men love--she has flirtiness coupled with receptivity (explained in the book) and a HUGE smile always.
She is "open" to what they have to offer. And loves to sit back and let them do their thing--doesn't "jump" to give them anything. Lets them treat her like a lady, which, they love!!
She introduced me to my STBEXH and the boyfriend I had before that. She can totally work a room and is an awesome "wingman".lol.
Another great book is "Why Men Marry Bitches" (Bitch=lots of self confidence). Very, VERY funny and FULL of good, useful info.
Bobbi Jo, you did good with the calling/texting. At some point in stage 2 they will totally NOT call you and you have to be very, very careful not to look like you are pursuing. Then in stage three you still are challenged not to give too much!!