She has to be using your income to get another mortgage whether or not your name is on the note. What company is going to give a woman a mortgage with a part time job? Especially when she's already on another house. Something just does not make sense here. If she really wants out, she should be willing to show you ALL of the paperwork so you can verify what she is telling you. Have your L review it just to be sure it won't come back to bite you.
Also, doesn't she realize she will have to pay child support? You need to research this and find out what you're entitled to. If she's just going to walk away, she will at least need to pay for it. I say that because I didn't get child support while my H and I were separated. That was a huge mistake. He got to live a party lifestyle, not visit or call the kids while I struggled. Even if you won't struggle, paying that child support every month she's gone will remind her what she's doing without you having to say a word.
