What do you think?

[DoneAfter10]

This morning WAH came by to visit with baby and to bring me my birthday gift, as today is my bday. I was my usual upbeat self, but before I left I told him I wanted to talk to him about something. I told him that I understood that he didn't want to be married to me anymore and that I was't even sure I want to be married to him (lied through my teeth on that one!), but that i had been doing research on the effects of divorce on children and that one day our daughter was going to ask us why we didn't stay together and why we couldn't make it work. So, I asked him to go to this seminar, not to fix us b/c I don't know if we can be fixed, but to figure out where we went wrong so we don't keep making the same mistakes with each other, with our daughter, and with other relationshiops we may have. He said, "maybe", which was better than "no." I gave him a number to call to get more info, but I don't know if he will. I pray he does and I pray he agrees to go. I feel like it's a step in a right direction b/c so far he has refused counseling. I told him we could talk about it tomoorrow after he's had time to think about it and call and get more info. He said okay. How do I encourage him to call--and find out if he has without seemeing too pushy? I don't want to take any steps backward, but only continue moving forward if possible. Any advice???