Thanks Sillyoldbear!! I am just extremely frustrated! We still have not made love and I can't let go of the anger. I need to somehow stop being angry and resentful and maybe I can get in a better place for myself. I am working on it and it is getting a little better. I just don't understand why she is like this? She know how I feel and still goes on like this. I am constantly thinking, Does she love me? maybe I don't turn her on? Doesn't she ever think about sex? She doesn't respect me? She used to be very sexual person! I can't get these thoughts out of my head and they consume me. I continue to work on myself but having a hard time figuring out what to change. Very Frustrated!!