Hey Gyps, always nice to read you. It has been roughly three years for me as well. That is a long time. Some folks move on quicker than others and some have a little more difficulty. What is important is that we heal.....it has not been an easy road and we all struggle at times but I firmly believe that WE have to give ourselves that kick in the butt, WE need to snap out of it and stop looking back at every opportunity. You / we have come a long way from those early post bomb days. I sometimes wonder how the last three years have affected or changed me. I hope I am a better person. I hope I am more receptive to others and their feelings (like the person in the article mentions). I have to improve on certain facets of my life but I am not aiming for perfection. So don't sweat the real estate agent reaction. That person is hurt and reacted a certain way that surprised you. Sometimes it is in difficult times that we see the real character of some folks. It is easy to smile and wave when things are going well. The real estate person took it personally...you are right about business and family / friends....usually not a good mix.
