Said he felt sick and just doesn't know if we can get back to where we were.
That could have been a reaction from all the emotional pressure he felt from being around family/relatives 4 days.
He knows you very well and he can read your eyes. He knows when you start to get hopeful and that's when he backs away. It's pressure to him and he can't deal with that. That's why he wants to run away.
Don't get into any serious talks before the graduation. Keep things light and do nothing that appears to be clingy. When family comes, do not join in if they start talking about future plans. Don't stop them.....just don't join them b/c that when it becomes pressure on him.
Does your family know about the problems?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
