Starting on a different path

[Mystik]

Bethann ~ I try to keep interactions as minimal as possible. I do like the perspective of a new marriage for a renewed relationship.

Piano ~ One of the people I met in the treatment center was going to talk to her aunt and uncle who are divorce lawyers about doing some pro bono work for me. If she's there today she'll hopefully have an answer for me and I'll go from there. An intermediary would be great, I'll have to look into that some more.

CG ~ I've no doubts that Whore will put up a heck of a fight when H leaves her. And he has admitted, at least during last year, that OW was pushing him to divorce me, that's why he was looking into it. Not sure now who wants it, him or her. Changing the exchange locations and time is in the works, I expect the court papers with a court date to come any day now.

Abbey ~ I'm working on radical acceptance of the situation, then I think it will be easier for me to drop the rope. I do keep re-reading everyone's posts. SO much wisdom in them. I think even with just the one week of treatment I'm doing better, going to do my best to keep it up.

Bluestar ~ Thanks so much for the link. There are three in my area, and three in H's area. I'll have to call them to see if they would work well for us. And I do need to get out of the "win H back" place and into a "me, me, me" place. But it's hard, I've spent my entire life being more concerned with other people than myself. Not an eash transition to make. I could write more about my life but felt this journal was about my marriage and my H, that's why I focus mainly on them. I do pray to God to give me the strength and wisdom to know what I have to do and to get it done. But so far not feeling guided into one thing or another yet.