Hi BeingMe, thanks for checking in on me, yes me and son are doing fine, and do you know I dont come here often at all now. I am at the stage where I think nothing is ever going to change with the ex so there is no point in coming here. so long as son and I are ok thats the main thing. The ex still isnt in contact with son or old aunt, and I had a call from another aunt of his who lives in Ireland and not that he bothered with that side of the family very much anyway, but she says they havent heard from him in 5 years., so it is all his family he has cut off from interesting I know, hope you are well, take care xxx