Enough indeed about death. We won't be around to know who is there anyway.

I think grace is a good thing to 'give' the X. I think better is just to be a great dad to your kids, make your CS payments and, yes, live life to the nth degree. Move on.

And, finally, the last piece of advice is that you can NEVER figure these people out so STOP trying. LOL. Analysis is best left to the shrinks. FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;