I agree with City Girl. If anyone should get an intermediary to assist with your son's visitation exchanges, it's you. I am not singling you out, Mystik. I am so upset and can relate to so much of what you are going through (esp acceptance..wow..that's hard) that I would also insist on a 3rd party if my H was still in the country. Divorce time. And see if he can pay for it. Hugs, Mystik. When you have time I'd be interested to hear more about the work the therapists are doing, esp the reality/acceptance stuff.
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369