G, like your list, and happy thanksgiving! Good to hear it's no bigger than Christmas..I love Christmas..bit of a bummer H dropped the bomb 2 days after Christmas...ugh. How were STBXH's grandparents? Did they say anything?

As for our H's (or STBXH's), we need the divorce so this marriage ends and a new start - whereever and with whoever - can happen.

Crap behaviour (leaving a pregnant wife) is not permitted in the next marriage!!!

Me 36; H 40
baby born in May
M:13, T:15
Bomb (OW): Dec 09
began DBing: Feb
WH overseas with OW
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