Starting on a different path

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Mystik, Benthann, I am thiking along the same lines... we don't want the old marriage anymore. It's gone. A new improved one would be so much better! In order to have the best chance of reconcilliation, we should give them what they want, the divorce. Only then will they realise what they are losing and that will implode on their new relationships with OW.
I think NOW is the perfect time, Mystik, for you to give him the D he wants. Can you say that you are willing, but that he has to pay for it??? Let him pay for it!!! If he wants it so much!!

I have been reading Private Lies by Pittman, and he says that it's during the divorce process that most affairs implode...

A newborn, a divorce...there's a good chance your WH's affair will implode...

Don't be afraid. Newmama said she felt soooooo much better once the divorce went through. I think you will to.

IMHO.