In addition, as our partners become older and less self-focused and more nurturing, this also allows for sex which is far more mutually satisfying.
That sentence has stuck with me. I guess because it's so far from anything I've experienced. And because it sounds like the kind of sex people would aspire to if they've had lots of sex already, like older people who've already had years of wild sex when they were younger or something. But with my lack of experience, I'd be happy to just have any kind of sex with a willing partner, see what female arousal is all about, try new positions, and try oral sex (never tried any form of it).
It's likely that because of my lack of experience with any kind of "mutually satisfying sex", I'm not even sure what you mean by nurturing in this context. I'd love to have a woman who was totally self-focused on her orgasm. Sure is better than no focus at all. To me, it sounds nurturing to get a hand job from a stripper in a nightclub, as long as she did it was half a smile and a sense of humor. Not that I'll claim that that has happened -- but just the thought to give you an example.
