I'm observing as well in my sitch that the gap between H & I is widening. I think that it's normal....they are under the influence of OW and I don't think anything is going to change until that R starts to crumble....also the less they see us the less guilty they feel...I think
I understand how him going on a trip with OW...the same trip you took with him could make you upset and doubtful....believe me I understand. I'm sure that you will feel better tomorrow
And BTW, there are many success stories here where there was no contact from H at all for months, if not years...and then they resurfaced and started reconnecting....
Keep your chin up, OK?
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
