Not pursuing in stage three is definitely a huge challenge for most women--you are so "grateful" for the attention by someone you are really strongly attracted to that you can barely stand it!
And it feels weird. You still shouldn't pay for anything, you should still give him a gracious smile and tell him thank you for the things he does, but NOT have sex, etc. He is still in pursuit, and you honestly spoil his fun when you give in!
He may say it's what he wants, and he will take it if you give it, but ultimately he is disappointed--the fun is over!!
