H called early to let me know his schedule and ask if it is ok for him to take D for 3 nights in a row this week. He thinks this will be his schedule for a few weeks too.
I took a deep breath and said ok. H asked if I wanted to come over for dinner Tuesday night and I said that would be great. I was a bit hesitant sounding when he first asked for 3 days at once (despite my best efforts to stay calm) and maybe that was why he invited me.
He has had her this many night in a week before, just not all together, so it will be different. This may be easier on D to not be in a different place every night. This is a change for her schedule. Not bad, just new. Will have to see how well she adjusts.
I'm anxious about OW contact with D because it is more daytime hours with her daddy. I will have to monitor her behavior to see how she does anyway.
Other than that, it is just a bit of an adjustment for me. I do get to see her Tuesday, so not really bad. This also means I only lose daycare days and H won't be cutting into my weekend time with her.
Long term this may be a good schedule, though I doubt it will last through the restaurant opening. Better use this time to finish some holiday to-dos so I can enjoy my time when she gets back!
