I am at a loss my husband of 6 years is in a mlc and has left me - our one year old and three year old. He had started going out to bars and we were fighting over it. I told him if he didnt want to be married we should get seperated he said he wanted to get seperated and has moved in with he mom - everything I am doing is pushing him futher away I just purchased the book and counseling sessions -but am so scared I cant breathe