I also think OM is not coaching her to say that she does not want to be married to you. My H says the same things, he says he cannot imagine us being together for another 30 years or so (if we live long enough).
Does he have "pleasant smile" when he says that?
That's what puzzles me about these "talks".
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."
