H in crisis and self medicating with OW

[nicole8]

Alb, thanks for the advice above. In the past my h has told me that I don't need him and that I would be fine without him. True, I can take care of and do everything for myself. But how does this make him feel. A person needs to feel valued and needed in life. Ordinarily, I would have told him that I can get to work on my own. BUT, as a 180, I accepted his offer. It seemed to please him that he was doing something for me and helping me. This is actually one of the 5 Love languages. acts of service. The reason he fell asleep was because he had been awake for over 24 hours (night worker) and still took the time to come over and drive me to work. Again, I think this is important, he could have just not even offered. He knows I could ask others to drive me. These new offers of doing things for me are different in our situation....