I do think you have an opening there - anytime that the tide turns, like what happened with OM backing out, is partly because of some things you did.
The only thing I did was put the fear of exposure in her head. I confess it feels kinda sweet after the misery she's put me through. I still have to deal with the OM being her best friend and suggesting she postpone her trip. I probably screwed up big time admitting to her that I thought about putting her stuff in the driveway and telling the whole world where she'd been. My bad.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."
