Thanks Angel. Your sitch is further along than mine. My W is a stubborn, educated person, so I have a long wait. I don't think the EA is going down any time soon. It's still exciting for her now. But the good thing is I am past that first month of hell. I'm through crying alone in the dark and am regaining my sanity. SO I'm going to DB my ass off and will definately delay as much as possible. After communion at mass today I felt God telling me that I am getting stronger while she gets weaker. Not sure what that means, but I am hopeful. It's true what they say, don't believe what you hear and only half of what you see. She definately thinks the last five years of our M were bad, but I look back and see a lot of good times. I just have to delay and wait and wait and wait. Please everybody - pray for me.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."
