I'm with ya man. It's hard though. She has these teary, sorry, fearful moments. Then she'll have a show of strength, which is when she pushes my angry button. When she pulls that "I don't want to be married to you" routine, it's with a cocky almost "coached" smile on her face. I think she knows it hurts like hell, and is trying to wear me down. I sense OM (internet predator) is coaching her. But I busted her chops last night, and she went to bed trying not to look upset. This morning she apologised for making me angry. Can't wait for the next strategic move. I'm starting to see the pattern. Being a friendly shoulder during the one, and just STFU during the other. I'm trying man - I'll get there
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."