Thanks for your reply Snodderly ... I respect yours and WCW's advice. I will try to do as you say. I thought I had been sitting quietly for the past 5 years, but I think that was just an outward facade. Inside, I was fighting with him, trying to anticipate or determine his answers or what was going on. He definitely hides things from me, such as when he went to a psychologist.
I will back off and stop the inner fighting, and focus on other things. If he truly loves me, he will come back. If not, then I had other things to take up my time and will continue with that.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim