Hello my friend. I hope you and your kids had a nice Thanksgiving. I think it's great that you want to reach out to your W. I spent the holidays with my W, my son and her family. I honestly thought it would have been uncomfortable but we ended up having a nice time.
The only reason I tell you this is because without my W saying it I knew that she wanted to spend the holidays together. Maybe you can build up to asking her if Christmas is something she'd be interested in spending together as a family. Just a thought.
I hope all is well.
M: 36 W: 29 S: 2.5 EA: 2/2010 OM1 D Bomb: 3/2010 PA: 6/2010 OM2 W moved out 8/2010 Loc: DE, USA