Hi Zen You are right - best not to confront cause then S4 gets caught up in things...had a little talk with S along the guidlines you gave, so hope it helps him a bit.
I can't imagine how you take having OW around little one all the time...it would drive me to drink, but I suppose something kicks in when it must hey? I mean I thought I would have ceased to breath if my dear H ever stopped loving me, but I'm still alive....
Last night when h left, S had asked him to come see him in the morning, H said ok he will.
Not a peep this morning, but I made my plans for the day as I knew that meant he would probably only pitch late in the day if at all.
So we went to the new CHINATOWN that opened yesterday down the road...I'M IN LOVE. Don't ask me why, but I LOVE cheap chinese stuff!!! Give me a trolley full of cheap superfluous chinese knick knacks over a cartier watch anyday. What does that make me? Nobody answer that
Decide to come home after buying a few really cheap pairs of flipflops - sort of island style which I love, and kids toys are dirt cheap, so S came home grinning from ear to ear because $2 bought him 3 toys!!
Came home for lunch and made plans to go to the theme park which just opened yesterday too for the holidays...just as we are about to leave H txts, says can he visit between 4-5pm.Said he had been resting the whole morning (cause he felt sick) I said we were off to theme park, should be back by then but will txt when home.
I don't know If I belive him about the resting thing. Can you blame me - there have been so many things being done behind my back lately, how can I trust ANYTHING he says anymore....
So txted about 1 hr ago that we back, not a peep again.
Sigh....for someone who swears he loves his son more than anything else on this planet, you'd swear he'd want to spend more time with him
You are right - best not to confront cause then S4 gets caught up in things...had a little talk with S along the guidlines you gave, so hope it helps him a bit.
