"You're just mad that I dont want to be married to you anymore."
She is right Pickle.
That is how she sees you right now.
Stop fighting.
I don't think you should move. If she does want to D let her do the work.
You need to concentrate on not having any anger provoking convos with her right now.
You need to detach.
This is just a pull and push game right now.
Talk to the lawyer and know your rights and options. Protect yourself.
She knows you won't want her living there and being divorced. She is trying to bully you and make you act like the pissed off jerk she thinks you are right now.
You have to be the man you want to be and step toward that everyday.
Not for her.
For you.
Do you want to be a pissed off jerk?
Choose something different.
Gritter, did you really go thru all this crap already? I admire you man. It seems every time she wants to talk, I get pissed off, 'cause everytime she drops some new "bomb" on me.
New Goal List for Pickle:
1. STFU 2. Make her do all the work. 3. Get legal advice to protect myself 4. Protect the kids as best I can.
But I've decided I am not going to "allow" her to "use" the children to get what she wants - cake. If they have to find out, I'll leave them in God's hands. I've been carrying way too much burden on my shoulders, because of WAW's choices. Screw Her !!!!
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."
