That's such typical logic....your lives are unhappy, the two of you don't know what to do, you don't see a way to make it better, so refuse to go to Retrouvaille. Things are bad, so why change them? It doesn't make any sense to me. Maybe Retrouvaille won't make things better, but why not give it a try? You won't come out any worse for going. It might make it better, and it might not. But you won't know unless you go.
