Hope it's not too late

[what next?]

Yeah, I know. A lot of the note was about stuff that we really need to talk about regarding assets and stuff. Things that I have really avoided talking about. But she started the email with "I know that this is a delicate subject..." so I just wanted to let her know where my head is at. I can't really explain to her why I am in such a good place regarding the whole situation without telling her how I got to the point that I am. She wants to think that I am in denial already so I felt like I had to make clear why she should not worry about approaching me about anything.

I don't see any point in dragging out the legal process because all it does is take a toll on me and doesn't let her start to deal with the reality of it. I'm trying to show her that one of the things that I have changed is my defensiveness. I can use the process to show her that I am willing to capitulate to whatever she wants.