Okay, she's getting emboldened.
I noticed this after she has a long phone chat with some "confidant."
Tonight she wants to "talk" D.
She wants to either live in the same house divorced for the kids or she wants me to move out.
She says the house is as much hers as mine.
How do you like that?
I told her I wasn't going anywhere.
But she still doesn't get it.
I told her before, I wouldn't live with a divorced wife, and I will not move out.
That leaves one alternative - she moves.
She baited me into getting my anger up again, so I told her I am not talking about this anymore.
Oh and she rubbed in the, "You're just mad that I dont want to be married to you anymore."
This is a subtle new tact, no mention of EA or OM at all.
I think she's getting this kind of advice.
I will talk to a lawyer next week, but in the meantime.
What should I do?


Me 53 XW 50
M 18 Years +2
S14 D19
Bomb 10-24-10
Served 1-27-11
Mediate 4-21-11
Civil D Final 6-2-11
No church anullment
"A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."