I am spending a lot of time thinking of how the present will shape S' future relationships. Since I can't undo the past I can only give him a loving mother and the best opportunity to connect with his dad. Something in me is thinking that when people have a good relationship with each of their parents, divorced or not, they will have more potential for happiness in life.
Totally agree. Trying to do the same.
Missed your account of Thanksgiving, but will go read it in a sec!