well scrap retro i guess. she read the paperwork and decided she doesn't want to go. We talked divorce settlement and she goes in circles all the time about what is still there to work on, maybe we should just stay together for the kids, we could never get the passion back....
Oh well, I just don't want to live in a relationship where that is the best that could happen. We can be civil and figure out a plan going forward of how to raise our kids. I just can't continue to sit around and be with someone who just wants to be my friend, isn't honest with me, isn't attracted to me, and feels that her affair really changed her life...
I'm not angry, i understand and I want more than this.
