I think its over help pls

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I have backed off prob 98% I am thinking before I speak. Validating, we have not argued in at least a week, she gets defensive over childrens events that she cannot attend due to schedule especially if it includes any atypical behavior on my part. She said she is staying at her siblings tonight I said ok. She is going to look at places tomorrow and can't make it home before work so I said ok instead of the kids are going to miss you.
She stopped jolting away from my slight touch again, she asked some questions about some small house work being planned and finished with do what you want but left out the whatever its going to be yours anyway like a week ago. I wont see her til monday. That's my evening synopsis. Thanks all keep that advice coming I will get through this one way or another.