Glad you are doing well after your surgery. I believe you said this is your last one....
Hoefully!! Although the surgeons and hospital staff are wonderful I've had enough of their company!!
Originally Posted By: Sanderika
I would say in the previous surgeries your H was acting out of obligation to you and the kids. He brought the kids to visit because he felt he had to. Even though they are behaving like a cold dead fish, they still don't want people to think badly of them. I would recall that you also stated that he was rather removed about your situation and lacked genuine concern.
That's right. He did the right things but didn't really seem to be present. Now this time, I thought he might make some contact, given that he gave us soup just last week. He took D out all day yesterday and came to the door to collect here but didn't come inside. I was on skype when he was last night but no message. I am tempted to say something. He says he loves me as a friend......ha ha. Lately he's sent me messages asking about my job interview, my review etc but not how I am after surgery. I don't understand that. I wonder if he's deliberately showing me he doesn't care about me.
Originally Posted By: Sanderika
I Yesterday was Thanksgiving here. Even though I did not invite H to our dinner, I sent him a text: Happy Thanksgiving Day wishes to you! I never got a reply. I am actually mad at him, really mad at him.
That's just poor manners. No wonder you are mad!
Originally Posted By: Sanderika
My thought of the day.....They want friendship only and only on their terms.
Yes! I'm tired of always considering their terms!!
