Have you considered going to a Retrouvaille weekend? check the website, www.helpourmarriage.org for locations and dates. They can really help couples heal the marriage. It worked for me!
I suggested that right after the bomb, but got negative response. She seems to have made up her mind.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."