.I responded okay let's try that - no contact. She boldly refused.
No contact/dark/dim is not something you ask her permission to do. You do it to protect yourself from her antics. If you choose to do this then you just start. It is what YOU choose, nothing to do with her.
I was talking about her having no contact with OM.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."