When you say you are doing some 180 stuff, what are you actually doing?
When you say you think it is the pressure of 3+ children, there may be some truth to that. What does he do or say that makes you think that could be the issue.
Cat is right....'trying to get his attention' is going to have the opposite effect.
You are in a tough situation with the 3 kids and one on the way. Your hormones are going to make this more difficult. You can do this, but be good to yoruself. Take really good care of yourself. You deserve it, and your whole family needs you...you are the heart.
