Fix me, fix my life, win back my wife

[ScaredinCanada]

So last night when my W was at work I noticed that the laundry was over-flowing. So I decided to be nice and do the laundry (I think I've only ever done laundry once or twice in my 33 years). Anyways, I figured I'd just start it to help out my W and prove to myself that I could do it. I ended up finishing most of it. This morning, instead of just saying thanks she was angry that I did the laundry (that I didn't fold thing properly) and just not touch the laundry. I also tried to tell her that she looked good today when she got dressed (a nice christmas dress) and she just rolled her eyes at me!:(

I just ran around all morning, took my daughters to dance and then ran around getting food, cake and balloons for the party...W doesn't say anything. I get all the veggies cut up and ready to cook for dinner, so I decide to sit down on the couch next to my W and put my hand around her back. Big mistake, she tells me to take my hand off her and not to touch her!?!? I just said "what's the big deal, you are my W aren't I allowed to put my arm around you?" to which she said no, that we aren't even friends...I'm starting to wonder why I'm trying with her.

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH, so frustrated. I've been so good, and felt so good about all my changes and every chance she gets she makes me feel like crap.