So H txts this morning, saying he's sick, and the weather looks bad for what he had planned for S (still has OW with him, discreetly).
After txting back and forth, he decides he'll take him anyway (I tried to stay out of the decision, although he tried to get me to decide what to do - maybe he was trying to NOT take S to see OW, and looking to me to talk him out of it, I dont know, or he just didnt want to take S, who knows)
So he fetches S at 11am, and says hes bringing him back at 3pm, I said thats fine, everything pleasant and fine.
H brings S home at 3pm, and after S starts talking about what he's being doing, he starts saying something, and then stops and gets this strange look on his face. I asked him if he was ok, and then he put this really strange 'big boy' voice on, and said, 'It was nothing, I didnt say anything.I wasnt saying anything'
So then I realized he was told not to say something.
So I said my boy its ok, you can tell me anything you want to tell me, I wont get upset.
So he said, No it doesnt matter mommy.
So I said, is it about the other lady?
So He said 'Mommy, how did you know? It doesnt matter, shes gone now, so it doesnt matter' and he trailed off and intentionally changed the subject.
NEVER seen my boy behave like this.
If you knew my son, he talks NON stop about everyone and everything, and if you ask him about something, he will rattle on for as long as you will allow him to.
So H has somehow convinced this little boy to keep things from his mom. I cant even BEGIN to imagine what he must have told S to get him to not talk about it...
My little boy forced to keep the burden of secrets from me
H came round earlier, and just sat and played with S. He was feeling sick.
He just sat there, not saying much,played with S, and was just really wanting to leave , I could tell, and then went home.
Not even going to TRY figure out whats going on in his head...its impossible. Wonder if he even knows
Not nice having someone not really interested in what you have to say, or at least try join in a conversation, or help it along..make a tiny effort. He showed NO effort, bordering on rude
Can't wait for my parents to come down...just need some unconditional love right now....
