I'll be honest, I was pretty discouraged after talking to a lawyer. It seems as if an affair means nothing in the eyes of the law. The only "perk" my lawyer could really offer is that I could "probably" pus for my husband to pay all fo the fees. Other than that it is not factored into custoyd or who gets what in my state. B/c mine is a no fault state everything gets split 50/50 no matter what.
