Hope it's not too late

[Bworl]

It's all about redeeming yourself. And please know that none of us are unsympathetic about the pain and emotional turmoil that this sort of thing puts you through. We all experienced just as you have/are.


The power of time and perspective, the benefit of having already experienced this mess from beginning to ending, is that you do realize that life will continue. And if that's the case, the most important thing is that you position yourself to have as good a life as possible when your ending rolls around.


It may still be with her. We hope, right alongside you, that this will be the case. But whether she is there or not, you still have value and your life has great meaning. You want it to be full and rich, not mired in guilt and loss.


Right now, while a spouse rolls from left to right and up and down, there is so little that WE can do to make a lasting impact in their decision making. You see, she is experiencing her own turmoil right now, even if it is of her own making.


The best you can do is heal yourself and become, once again, that light that she once chose to move towards.


Stay strong.


Blessings,

Bill