Bobbi Jo--I don't see the harm in suggesting dates if you want, and if you are comfortable with him deciding, then go with it! I mean suppose the next time you offer an idea and he says "I wanted to take you___"
And see, men? Bobbi Jo is another woman who offers to pay! We do exist!
Oldtimer--you are right; I didn't mean to sound harsh when I compared OW to g450's girlfriend!! Sorry, g450--got on a tangent there.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004