And that was the point I was trying to make the other day! Totally detaching is only good if, the two people are moving on. You have to know where to draw the line in detaching.
Quote: The difficult part is to move from total detachment back into an intimate r and I'm seeing that as not possible.
Yes, be careful about detaching to much! And that is why I have stopped detaching, afraid that like LL I may not find it easy to go back in a R with my H. I would call what I am doing~detaching with love.
