Wonder: Feel free to post anything. Nothing wrong at all with what you said. Being a lifelong caregiver I do know one thing - you need to take a break every little while in order to do your best. I did come north - to much snow, but so pretty. Been in touch with the hospital. He is vomitting which is good in a way - clears the junk out of his tummy but the risk of aspiration is there again. Otherwise doing fine. My sister and friends are going today and so is Chuck. It is strange that he is ok with seeing the people he long avoided. He even asked me if his sister could visit. Of course. She is Ryan's aunt!

Bobbi Jo - I appreciate your prayers for Ryan. I know it is making a difference. Ryan is truly loved. To the moon and back I always tell him.

Josh is with me and I am taking comfort in the fact he is still in ICU. I'm hoping he stays there till Monday.

Barb