Help: Trying 180 with wife that won't see me!

[Cadet]

It sounds like you are off to a good start.

Take whatever small positives as a good sign.
1-She contacted you!
2-She did not file yet.

Continue to give her space.
Keep coming here to vent or read.
There is much wisdom here and there is always a lot to learn.
Ask questions if you have any.

Keep us posted.