Originally Posted By: Mr
Anyone out there that can make any sense of this?


It eases her guilt for you to be considering moving on.

You are still fresh at this Mr. So don't beat yourself up for it.

Find YOUR center and then you will have convos that come there. It will happen naturally.

It takes time.

Me?

I would have said "I am still married so I am not considering that at this time."

"I don't know what is going to happen. I am just living my life for me the best way I know how for what I want in my life"

The first might be a little pressuring but IMO your W has to know that you don't want a D and that you consider your vows seriously ...

At the same time you are communicating that YOU own that not her.

That is just me though. You have to find YOUR answer.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am