Hi, Len here. I agree detachment is such an important step, but also a VERY difficult one too pull off. A counsiller suggested that I join AL ALON, this is a group for peoples whose spouses are alcoholics. No, my W is not (I don't think) but it is a support group and thier major goal to to detach. I will let you know how this is working out, come and visit my post, would love to hear from you!
