H4L has a point, time to state your boundaries again, stronger still but with no guarantee to her that you will take her back, she needs to fufil a criteria that you set to move this back into a marriage status.. Havent read much on it but the road back to me letter seems to fit the bill this time!
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!